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Then comes the rejection. A girl may reject a guy for any number of reasons, just as a nice guy will bypass a “chick” to speak to a nice girl; however, after spending so much time and effort attempting to build a relationship, the nice guy often attributes this rejection to some fault of his own.

After going through this process multiple times, it is no wonder why nice guys are often beaten down and skeptical of romance in general.

NICE GUYS FINISH LAST JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE
What nice guys must recognize is that girls are going to reject them. Everyone gets rejected, this is no mystery. Instead of treating every girl that comes along as the next great possibility, try to recognize the statistics. Since nice guys already weed out the “chicks” from their minds, the math is certainly different. No study has been done to find the exact number, but for the sake of argument, imagine only 1 out of every 10 girls you court will show some interest in you. Keep this in mind so that you don’t overreact if you are met with rejection. Here are some tips that can help you utilize this math:

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1. KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN
Instead of focusing on one girl who may or may not want you back, don’t be afraid to show interest in other girls. Many nice guys fear this will discourage another interest of theirs. Recognize that girls are more likely to be jealous than immediately disregard you as an option.

2. CUT DOWN ON COURTSHIP
If you are a nice guy, you probably spend too much time in the courtship process. Don’t skimp on the gentlemanly conduct, but do try to find some way of getting the girl to reveal her feelings about you earlier on. This will save you the frustration of being “lead on” and it will also allow you more time to search for someone else.

3. WHEN YOU SENSE A HINT OF DISINTEREST, MOVE ON!
Assume the worst when it comes to girls. If you catch what you think is some kind of “hint,” assume it’s her way of saying “no thank you.” Be the first to put her in the “friend zone” for a change. Always leave room for her to get in touch with you, but let her to do some of the work. You’ve probably already made it clear that you’re interested, so if she shares that interest, she’ll seek you out. But don’t always feel the need to be the one to make the first move.

4. TREAT YOUR SEARCH AS A MATTER OF VOLUME RATHER THAN TIME
A lot of times people say to nice guys “don’t worry, the right one will come along eventually.” Take this advice with a grain of salt. The “right one” will come along, but first you have to get through the wrong ones. Imagine that you have to get rejected a certain number of times first before you can get a “yes.” Go for as many nice girls as possible and accept as many no’s as you can. This is the only way to shorten the amount of time it will take.

5. DON’T BLAME YOURSELF!
Now that you know there’s nothing wrong with you, stop being so hard on yourself! Not even a jerk will get it right the first few tries. This doesn’t mean you’re a failure. Ms. Right is going to accept you for who you are. All you have to do is spend some time weeding through the possibilities.

The research is out there! In study after study, women are shown to prefer men with “nice guy” qualities. Nice guys just need to spend more time searching and less time sulking. I know that no one likes to hear it, but there are plenty of fish in the sea. If you feel like there’s no one out there for you, then you’ve given up too soon. Take a page from the jerk’s book and play the odds. If you keep at it, you’re bound to hit a jackpot sometime.

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